Some time for woman their be afraid of changing to any thing, who known it’s have more confidence.  The method to make positive attitude for you :

 

 

When you choose safety way only ; you don’t have confidence.  You can choose another way although have risk.    

2. “Acceptation to failure”  :

When you meet to failure for something ; you can accept and think “acceptation to failure is achieve for you”

3. “Stop accuse others” :

When you accuse others ; you can’t achieve but if you should be responsible every perform ; you can control performance by self.       

4. “Stop try to please others” :

If you try to please others all time ; you have not  please anything.

5. “You can refuse others” :

If others have disparagingly to you ; you can soft refuse others.